sex education
"Learning about sex is different from the skills we learn about" the other. For example we learn that to know about the pool to swim a good technique, but about learning how to learn sex is not sex a good activity, but what will occur or the impact of sexual activity is.
Evident during the puber, many young people who do things only for their curiosity or just follow trend-following. We take an example, in their mind that the opinion may appear, I never kiss girls I'm not valid
So at the age of girls, or they do not love monkeys timid and bashful again for a kiss, without know the sense of smell itself. And so easy way to do smth osculation know, do they even step over things that do not deserve to.
They are not aware of the delicious taste of yesteryear, will appear a new problem that can damage their future.
If you are not only very young people that will be batunya, but parents also do not hold the power to shame. learn about sex is important and essential. Or the introduction of sex education, can be started with a discussion ngomongin or directly on reproductive health. With a more familiar or foreverglo, ggak may need more timid.
While reviewing the various phenomena that occur in Indonesia, presumably pro contra still arise in the community, because the presumption that sex talk is taboo, and sex education will encourage teenagers to have sex. Most people still have a certain stereotype of sex education seems to be a vulgar thing.
what's free sex ??
there are some who say, "frater, sex is what one is? yet I love each other, kalao can make each other, why not? appetite is also not normal? why you should be banned-Disallow?"
some are saying, "we are the only realistic frater, now in the kost-kostan, in-villa villa, in hotels, etc ... so many that act, why you should be banned again?
"Where is .... try to imagine frater, a wife pregnant again contain ... ... and it's frigid ... what can we do to buy a moment?"
"Religion is only in theory, I know how complicated life sexual practices .... better ngurusi not need it!"
hemh ponder it ... I think ... whether the principles of moral truth that one is determined by the practice of life and many people vote? Why do I feel ya .... also in principle do not recognize this law relativitas ... sexual relationship is never love, resignation of the same shape with each other. each person can not take advantage of others for an easement
sexual consummation is love couple ... it's what they have not been blessed as a husband and wife, apanya who want to be?
then, free sex still remains ... can not also be gazed although many people ... even though the practice is also difficult .... but it should not be seen as a justification of what is actually wrong!
risk free sex
It is the development of free sex in Indonesia, especially among the students not be separated from freedom of information. Including getting the wrong information. In a qualitative research study that I do in the student / i in 2006. All the respondents claim to have been to have sex. A good grip until penetration.
Most of the beginning because of curiosity and then followed by feelings of good / convenient. From the beginning continued to be a touch more. There is no feeling of fear because of all the dead will not be just to have sex with.
When asked about venereal disease and HIV with their explicit answer, do so with the net. This means that too often than not switch pair (denganpacar generally do) and not afraid to doctors examined themselves.
We can not talk because of moral standards especially for young people as adolescents in Jakarta, there are only books naseht schools and parents. Does not comply with these rules does not make them dealing with the Fire. This means they are aware of the true real life and they are talking to based on fact. Something absurd, such as moral or religious message, is understood more broadly.
free sex is legal?
This era is now increasingly felt perplexed freesex and the other things like food a day is day dikehidupan us today. I as a community, they often see, hear and even find the fact that I was indeed freesex .. act smart. What is legal? ya lah enggak in all related religious couple before marriage is haram ruling. can not be done, if done will be sin.
I have been away clench responsibility, it is already happening, progress and results found. turns out the girl who was related on the basis of like the same like the same man was discovered pregnant. then what would that do? abortion? no way, will add to the sin. discovered that their unruly child, dreams must be deferred, disorderly turvy school (which I still school)
What with the way society has become RIGHTS to judge? certainly not. paradigm in the community who still indonesian aja menaggap only "feel" or "seems to" have the right to run down this problem when they are not the perpetrators, they are the only party to make a spectacle at the n behavior of the vessel gunjingan roasted peanut.
say no to free sex
Adolescence is a period of fluctuation, the introduction of a variety of adventure and will be things as a new stock to fill their lives soon. younger's the process to become mature human progress. Experience sweet, bitter, sad, happy, funny and even pain may be experienced in order to explore identity. Unfortunately, many of them do not realize that some of the fun seems to be upon it. Curiosity of young people are sometimes accompanied by less rational considerations will be more of a result of the act. Attraction between the friendship groups, risibility considered as a human adult, kaburnya values of the moral, lack of control of the party who are older (in this case the parents), as a result of the sexual instinct matangnya sexual organs secondary, plus a lack of information about sex from the schools / institutions and the formal bertubi-sex tubinya information from mass media that does not comply with the norms of the decisions taken on issues of love and sex so complex and cause friction, friction with parents or family environment.
Various large cities is very promising for the ease of the youth. Discotheque, shopping centers, entertainment center is a meeting place with young people all pernak-perniknya. Life is full of fire are often young people to create a "free sex behavior" even "deviant".
Love and sex is one of the biggest problems of teenagers anywhere in the world. Teenage pregnancy, abortion womb, dissolution of school, young age of marriage, divorce, venereal disease, drug abuse, is the result of bad adventure and love the wrong sex at young people. Not infrequently their future and a hope smithereens because of the love and sex.
The process of interaction is further realized with the date is reasonable and good for the development aspects of adolescent emotional maturity itself, but the date is a healthy thing done by teenagers difficult now, because it forbids them to do the interaction with the opponent is not the type that should be easy there are signs-signs that are placed together so that there is no overcharging, especially to sexual conduct occurred and that unwanted pregnancies and ultimately take the shortcut to the shed the womb
Some of the factors that cause young people be free of the association, namely, first, faith and religious factors.
Second, Environmental factors such as parents, friends, neighbors and media.
Third, a minimum of added curiosity excessive.
Fourth, changes in time. Of some cases can be seen above how the association berbahanya teenagers at this time, both street children and children who have the education to be calculated even feasible. Therefore, here we will create a kind of activity or business for hazards freesex Call